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We’re Pregnant!<\/h1>\n

We\u00a0were over the moon to find out we were pregnant 2 months ago. \u00a0I’m over the age of 35 (“advanced maternal age” in the medical community), so I was a bit more cautious this time around. \u00a0When over 35, your pregnancy is immediately classified as high-risk. \u00a0It’s been 11 years since my last pregnancy so it was time to read up on pregnancy for the over 35 crowd. \u00a0I reached out to friends for medical referrals and started making appointments. \u00a0I also learned about new screening tests available and planned to schedule any recommended ones.<\/p>\n

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Prenatal Care<\/h1>\n

We had our first doctor’s appointment about a week after our positive pregnancy test. \u00a0At the office, we had a brief conversation with the doctor, started prenatal bloodwork tests, and scheduled an ultrasound. \u00a0The next week we were able to see our little one via ultrasound and hear its little heartbeat. \u00a0We were about 7 weeks along and relieved to hear that things looked good–a little of my worry faded that day.<\/p>\n

Fast-forward another week, and, for reasons both logistical and personal, we decided to try a new medical practice to continue prenatal care. \u00a0Our new doctor requested an additional ultrasound to\u00a0confirm our pregnancy and due date (they hadn’t received the paperwork from the other doctor’s office). \u00a0We again got to see who we now lovingly referred to as our lentil (we’d started tracking our pregnancy progress on the Baby Center app<\/a> and found that our baby was the size of a lentil during week 6–the name stuck and bags of lentils magically appeared in the house as loving reminders of our future). \u00a0Lentil looked happy and healthy with a strong heartbeat and we even saw a few kicks of a leg.<\/p>\n

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Stats on Miscarriage<\/h1>\n

Again, being over 35, I was still cautious, but turning the corner to optimism, as I was getting further along and got to see lentil not once, but twice. \u00a0I still read up on statistics, trying to keep myself grounded and realistic. \u00a0A few things I found online:<\/p>\n